Can "Anger" be controlled?
Why, of course. We can "control" it on the job, on the
phone, when someone comes to the door or in any special
circumstance!!!
But is the heart changed? Or are the feelings only
temporarily covered up in those instances?
In looking at the Webster definition we can see anger originates from
supposed injury or hurt. We become angry when "self"
is being threatened. Someone destroys our self-esteem, dislikes
our opinions or ideas, threatens our well being and we rage or sulk!!
Anger is strengthened through weariness (lack of good rest), destructive
habits (drugs, alcohol, bad eating habits)... to name a few.
Unresolved anger provokes brooding, resentment, and
bitterness, which can
result in serious physical illness.
For many, anger has become a habit; the habit of expressing yourself
in the wrong way. It is a challenge to try to remove the habit, or to
even believe it needs to be removed.
If you click onto the next link, we'll take a look as to how God
views the challenges of "anger and bitterness."
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