If you are a parent or a grandparent who feels that you did not follow
the principles of raising your children in the knowledge of their Lord,
this section is for you.
No one on this earth is perfect. Two of the biggest problems that have
hindered good parenting are:
1) believing that you were the ultimate
answer and did everything right, or
2) feeling uncertain about every decision you made for fear of not
allowing your child to make choices.
Either attitude would bring despair in old age. But praise be to God,
we have the promises of forgiveness if we confess our sins
and restoration if we repent and ask God to change our
thinking. Notice the following promises:
"
The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to
anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth; who keeps lovingkindness
for thousands, who forgives iniquity, transgression and sin; yet He
will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting the iniquity of
fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth
generations." (Exodus 34:6-7)
"Know therefore that the Lord your God, He is God, the faithful
God, who keeps His covenant and His lovingkindness to a thousandth
generation with those who love Him and keep His commandments." (Deuteronomy
7:9)
Lets use Gods dealing with the rebellious Israelites as an
example. Even after all of His gentle leading and providing, the priests
and leaders (those who knew the most) transgressed against His principles.
What did God say?
"There I will yet contend with you," declares the Lord,
"and with your sons sons I will contend." (Jeremiah
2:9)
We can rest in the faithfulness of our God to save our children, for it
says in Isaiah 49:24-25:
"Can the prey be taken
from the mighty man, or the captives of a tyrant be rescued?"
Surely, thus says the Lord, Even the captives of the mighty man
will be taken away, and the prey of the tyrant will be rescued; for I
will contend with the one who contends with you, and I will save your
sons."
Naturally, the "tyrant" and the "one who contends with
you" is Satan, our ultimate enemy. And Jesus has already rendered him
a defeated foe.
Another promise for parents whose children do not know the Lords way
or have fallen away is:
"This is what the Lord says: Restrain your voice from weeping
and your eyes from tears, for your work will be rewarded, declares the
Lord. They will return from the land of the enemy. So there is hope for
your future, declares the Lord. Your children will return to their
own land." (Jeremiah
31:16-17)
In all of this we must remember that our heavenly Father lost some of
His children also. Lucifer and one-third of the angels rebelled against
His love and counsel and chose a different route. In His wisdom, every
created being has the power of choice, since our Creator did not
desire that we should serve Him from fear or force.
Even the first parents on this earth experienced the heartache of their
firstborn being a murderer. They saw the results of their choices early on
and in that process learned the forgiveness and restoration of a loving
Heavenly Father and the joy of obedience.
Your prayers will always be heard by the same loving Father God as you
accept the forgiveness and love He offers and faithfully intercede for
your family. Suggestions for prayer focus are in the section of this study
entitled: "Prayers and Promises From Gods Word for the
Family".
However, there may be some "mending" to do that would speed
your prayers for your children. Let's take a look at the link on
"Dealing With An Unbelieving Or Rebellious Family Member".
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