The following are "put-offs" and the replaced "put-ons" that are necessary for parents to nurture their child in the "way he should go".

Put-off

Scripture  

Put-on

Unbelief

Proverbs 3:5-6

Acknowledge the Lord in ALL your ways, thus building trust in your child.

  Faith

Harshness

Proverbs 15:1

Harshness stirs up a child’s rebellious spirit; gentleness calms.

Gentleness
Impatience/
arguing

 2 Timothy 2:24-25; 3:24; 4:1-2

Patient, gentle instruction allows God to work in the child’s life.

Patience/
gentle teaching
Anger

James 1:19

Your anger will not produce righteousness in your child.

Control
Disrespect

Philippians 2:3-4

Children need and deserve our consideration and respect as much as parents.

Respect

Vengeful punishment

Proverbs 19:18;
Colossians 3:21

Children become discouraged and hopeless with harsh punishment.
Handle difficult situations according to the Word.

Loving discipline
Inconsistency/
provoking

Ephesians 6:4

Breaking promises and inconsistency create anger and bitterness.

Trustworthiness
Grudges/
unforgiveness

Ephesians 4:31-32

As God, through Christ, has forgiven you, so are you to forgive.

Forgiveness
Distorting/
lying

Ephesians 4:15, 25

Children learn by what you do more than by what you say.

Truthfulness
 

Children will benefit and grow when taught the following principles through "put-offs" and "put-ons."

 
Put-off  Scripture Put-on
Disobedience

Ephesians 6:1 

To obey is better than sacrifice (consequence).

Obedience
Disrespect

Exodus 20:12; Proverbs 6:20 

Respect and honor of authority produces health and long life.

Respect
Irreverance

Ecclesiastes 12:1, 13 

The preface to knowledge and wisdom is the ‘fear of the Lord’.

Reverence
Rebelliousness

Jeremiah 7:23-24

Walking in a rebellious spirit slows progress in life’s journey.

Submission
Lying

Ephesians 4:25

Children need to be taught the difference between truth and error.

Truthfulness
Stealing

Exodus 20:15;
Ephesians 4:28 

Teach a child the joy of giving, then taking will not be such a temptation.

Giving
Disorder

1 Corinthians 14:40 

God is a God of order and He asks us to follow His example.

Order
Deceitful manipulations

Luke 16:10-13 

Training in trustworthiness begins with small things.

Trustworthiness
For many parents, the question may now arise, "But my children are already in their teens and we have failed miserably. Is there anything we can do, or is all hope for change gone?"

Our prayer is that the link on "How Late Is Too Late" may give those parents renewed hope.


 

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